Everyone gets a question card, pairs up to ask and answer, then swaps cards and finds someone new. Keeps people moving and meeting new partners without forcing small talk.
10-200 people
5-20 minutes
Medium
Hand out one question card to each person (one question per card, written on paper or index cards)
They pair up: Person A asks their question, Person B answers (2-3 minutes)
Then they flip it: Person B asks theirs, Person A answers (2-3 minutes)
Swap cards when done
Find a new partner and start over
Keep going for 5-20 minutes depending on group size and energy
Large gatherings, networking events, energizing groups, conference mixers
Print 10-20% extra question cards. Some always go missing
Use a bell or music to signal when to wrap up and swap. Keeps the momentum steady
Mix question types—some light, some deeper. People need options
Encourage mingling. Tell people to move around the room and meet new folks, not just the person next to them
Themed Swaps: All questions focused on one topic (work, hobbies, values)
Progressive Depth: Start with light questions, gradually introduce deeper ones
Speed Swap: Use 2-minute exchanges for high energy and more connections
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